Three Books I Read in May 2023

I’ve already blogged about two of the books I read in May (The Bill of Obligations, by Richard Haass on May 8 and Why We Sleep: Unlocking the Power of Sleep and Dreams, by Matthew Walker, Ph.D. on May 22.) That leaves me five more books to blog about today and next Monday.

As I’ve said before, I’m not a book reviewer. I just enjoy sharing my thoughts and takeaways from some of the books I read. In doing so, I hope I’ll introduce you to a book or two you’d like to read.

The Soulmate, by Sally Hepworth

If you follow my blog, you know I’m a fan of Sally Hepworth’s novels. She’s one author from whom I eagerly await her next release. Of course, then I’m sad because I know I’ll have to wait perhaps a year for her next book.

The Soulmate, by Sally Helpworth

I listened to The Soulmate on CD. Pippa, Gabe, and their two young daughters live on a cliff on the coast of Australia. Their backyard turns out to be a popular place for people to commit suicide, but Gabe has a gift for “talking people down.” But one day a woman is teetering at the edge of cliff and things go very, very wrong.

Who is the woman? Did she jump or did Gabe push her?

Over the course of the book, you learn how some of the characters know each other, unbeknownst to Pippa. Bipolar Disorder is a contributing factor in why one character behaves the way he does.

It is a story of loyalty, trust, turning a blind eye, what can happen when we aren’t honest with those we love, and how you can’t be responsible for a loved one’s actions – no matter how much you love them.

Downsizing for Dummies, by Ralph R. Roberts

Don’t laugh. If you’re fortunate to live long enough and accumulate enough stuff, this could happen to you. I read this book with my niece and nephew in mind. Someday they’re probably going to be left to pick up my pieces, and I want to make that task as painless and quick as possible.

Downsizing for Dummies, by Ralph R. Roberts

This book helps you evaluate your current situation and brainstorm about what kind of future you’d like to have if given that choice. Sometimes an illness or event can throw the best laid plans to the wind, but it’s best to have a plan in mind and make as many preparations as possible for the last phase of your life.

Readers of my blog will remember that I went through a decluttering phase last year. I had good intentions of continuing that process, but I gradually lost my enthusiasm. Hopefully, reading this book will be the impetus I need to get back on track getting rid of the things I no longer need – the things my niece and nephew shouldn’t have to deal with when I’m gone or incapacitated.

The book recommends that you take one room – or one closet – at a time and evaluate each item. Have separate boxes for “throw away,” “donate,” “sell,” and “give away.” Everything else (which theoretically will be very few things) fall into the “keep” category. They should be organized and put back in the closet or room.

I know… easier said than done. I was raised by parents who were young adults during The Great Depression, so I grew up with the mantra, “Don’t throw anything away because you never know when you might need it.” It was more an unspoken rather than a verbalized way of life, and it’s difficult to stop such old habits.

Downsizing for Dummies is really a common-sense book. It also contains some basic information about wills, trusts, and how long certain documents should be saved or how some of them can be scanned and stored in electronic form.

Secret Lives, by Mark de Castrique

Secret Lives, by Mark de Castrique

This is a spy thrilled by North Carolina author Mark de Castrique. In Secret Lives, Ethel Crestwater operates and boarding house that caters to government agents. One of her boarders, Jonathan, is murdered in her front yard.

Since 75-year-old Ethel has a background in spying, she jumps right in to solve the crime. Her sidekick is her double-cousin, Jesse, who attends college. His expertise is computers.

It turns out Bitcoins are involved and there’s a lot more going on than murder. No one is without suspicion. There are red herrings and it’s hard to tell the good guys from the bad guys.

Mr. de Castrique masterfully weaves the story and ties up all the loose ends.

Since my last blog post

In last Monday’s blog post, I asked for feedback about the possibility of my writing short stories about some of the characters in my planned historical novels. I appreciate all the feedback I received. It gave me some things to think about as I proceed with my plans. Thank you to each of you who responded on my blog and on Facebook.    

Until my next blog post

I hope you have lots of good books to read!

Spring weather is finally here in North Carolina! Enjoy the season, wherever you are.

Remember the people of Ukraine.

Janet

15 thoughts on “Three Books I Read in May 2023

  1. Lol! My only thought as I approach cleaning and uncluttering my garage: is this something I want my children dealing with upon my passing?!?! I’m throwing away lots!

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  2. If I could read a book a day (which I can’t even conceive of!), it would take me more than a year just to read the books on my list. LIfe is too short!

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  3. That’s the mind set I’m trying to keep with the entire house. Since I don’t have any children, the poor folks having to deal with the mess I leave behind will be my brother’s children and/or grandchildren and they all live 300 miles away. Not a good situation, so I’m trying to become more ruthless in throwing things away. It’s a struggle!

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  4. My sister never married or had children, so when she passed (cancer) I had the responsibility. It’s a holy and bittersweet task, but it was a lot! I was still working and devoted every Sunday to the job for months. All we can do is try to make it as easy as possible for our family!

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  5. I had to come back to your post as I had been out of town for a short time. Wonderful reading and I really admire your discipline and only hope I would have a little of it to actually read. I pass by my local neighbourhood bookstore every morning on my way to the bar for coffee and I look at the books she puts out on display at the door and I see titles that I would like to read but I know that they would just pile up with all the others I purchased last year which I’ve not opened… anyways it had gotten hot here now, yesterday was my first day in short pants and short sleeves! Take good care Janet and all the best!

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  6. How difficult it must have been for you to go through your sister’s things. I’m so sorry about your sister’s illness and death. Yes, all we can do is try to make it as easy as possible for those left to pick up the pieces.

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  7. I’m glad I read a lot of books in May because I’ve had many distractions in June. Several books have been returned to the library unopened because I had to face the fact that there was no way I’d get them read. The hot weather hasn’t arrived here yet, but the smoke from the 400 wildfires in Canada has. The sun made an effort yesterday and today, but it wasn’t strong enough to get through the smoke and cast shadows. Back to wearing masks outside since I’m still trying to shake bronchitis. On antibiotics and other meds again as I try to get rid of this cough before a great-niece’s wedding later in the month. I have happily gotten back to writing my novel this week A net gain of 800 words on Tuesday and a net gain of 800 words today. It feels good!

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  8. Congratulations! Wow! That is real work and you should be quite proud of yourself! Hope you feel better soon and enjoy your great niece’s wedding. Here it’s not too hot yet but today we’ll reach 30 degrees C. so it will be a new mark for the beginning of summer… anyway the weather is nice and I will take a few days off to go to the beaches nearby… take good care and all the best Janet.

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  9. I’m envious of your weather and nearby beaches! The smoke from Canada is slowly dissipating, so we do have some sunshine today, finally. Pleasant temperatures more like we expect to have in April than in June. I don’t recall our ever having such cool weather throughout May and the first half of June. Oh well. We take whatever we get and remain thankful that we aren’t experiencing a drought. Take care.

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  10. That is true and it was like that here too, way too cool in May and even first few days of June but yesterday they turned up the heat and today was a hot one… All the best Janet.

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